For 44 years of marriage, Karen and Larry Ganzini have balanced each other. Karen is a talker; Larry is quiet. Larry isn’t keen to show his soft side; Karen feels worse when she bottles up emotions.
Nearly 10 years ago, Karen was diagnosed with breast cancer. Although Karen says that cancer almost feels like second nature now, issues due to the couple’s differing communication styles have cropped up as the disease has progressed to stage IV. Karen and Larry support each other, but it was still difficult to talk about certain aspects of Karen’s cancer.
When Karen learned about a new pilot program to help patients and their caregivers cope better, the Ganzinis signed up. The program was offered by the Ann Arbor branch of the Cancer Support Community, a nonprofit organization dedicated to providing education and support to people with cancer.
“I asked the question about hospice, and my husband really didn’t want to go there at this point. He doesn’t like to talk about the end, and I understand that,” Karen said. “But I need to know what it’s going to be like.”